uNDeFineD...

kata-kata hikmah. insyaAllah.

2011-06-13T23:37:00.000-07:00

" walaupun kita tidak cantik di dunia, jangan risau, kita masih boleh 'cantikkan' diri kita untuk Allah n untuk akhirat yang kekal abadi."

" jangan risau kalau muka kita naik jerawat, tapi risau la sampai bile solat kita tak khusyu'2 lagi."

" cubalah tutup aurat dengan sempurna kerana antara 10 sebab solat tidak diterima adalah tidak menutup aurat."

" wanita paling banyak kat neraka."

" sebab yang paling banyak kat neraka ialah kerana mulut dan kemaluan."

" kepala dicucuk dengan besi lagi baik daripada bersentuhan dengan bukan muhrim"

" bila niat untuk dapatkan benda halal, jauhilah benda haram, insyaAllah Allah akan permudahkan benda halal itu."

" hormatilah ibu bapa."

" trus istighfar bila rasa riya' atau tak ikhlas dalam melakukan apa2 sahaja."

" bila kita tak dapat apa yang kita nak, atau kena uji, fikirlah dosa yang telah kita lakukan, sedar diri, bukannye kita baik sangat."

" sabar bila dapat ujian, syukur bila dapat nikmat."

" utamakan urusan dengan Allah dahulu, baru urusan dengan manusia."

" apabila azan, cepat2la mengerjakan solat sebab takkanla urusan dunia lagi besar daripada Allahu Akbar- Allah Maha Besar. takkan tv lagi besar daripada Allah. ganjaran Allah bagi lagi best daripada dunia."

" dosa mengumpat hanya akan diampunkan oleh orang yang kita umpatkan. even Allah pon takkan ampunkan."

" pakai tudung tutup dada, baju tak ketat atau jarang."

" Kecantikan perempuan bermula selepas berkahwin, hanya untuk ditunjukkan kepada suami."

" menjauhi/ menahan diri daripada melakukan maksiat adalah satu jihad."

" letakkan Allah dalam semua benda yang kita buat melalui doa kepada Allah sebelum melakukan sesuatu- minta Allah permudahkan."

" bila melakukan sesuatu contohnya dalam peperiksaan, bila kita sudah berdoa, apa yang Allah tolong lagi banyak daripada apa yang kita lupa. ada lah tu dosa yang kita lakukan. jangan salahkan Allah tak ingatkan kita. siapa lah kita, jangan jadi tak bersyukur."

" syukur je, insyaAllah Allah tambah nikmat."

" Al-Mulk mencegah daripada siksa kubur."

" Al-Waqiah mengelakkan papa."

" malu dan iman berjalan seiring. tanpa malu, tiadalah iman, tanpa iman, tiadalah malu."

" kalau baca Yaasin setiap hari, insyaAllah malaikat pun mendoakan keampunan bagi kita."

" walaupun sekejap sahaja kita dedah aurat, tapi kena siksa lama kat akhirat. tempat2 yang kita dedahkan tu la kena bakar dengan api neraka."

TEH PI (uncle saya) and a TURNING POINT. InsyaAllah.

2011-02-07T09:02:00.000-08:00

28 Januari 2011, petang tu acik (abang saya) amek saya kat kolej. On da way blk spang, ida (cousin saya) sms ckp teh pi msk hospital, jth bilik air. Dpt tau from kak ja (anak tehpi) tehpi still x sdar. Doc suspect stroke sbb drh naik tinggi sgt. Teh pi dh lame x mkn ubat hospital, mkn ubat akar kayu. Pagi esok, 29 Januari 2011, saya blk tganu. Tgh ari tu, g hospital. Mak btau yg tehpi tenat. Kol 3 lebih tu, g hospital ngan alom n adek. Tp waktu melawat kol 5. G mkn dulu ngan alom n adek. Smpai2 after mkn n solat asar dh 5 lebih. Saya ngan adek bace yaasin dulu kat ruang menunggu tu. Kol 6 lebih tu, sume sdare n ank2 tehpi dh masok kat ccu tgk tehpi. Boleh msk 2 org je skali. Kena ade pas melawat tyme msk 2, so, kene gilir2. Mula2 saya ngan de jan (aunty saya) nak msk skali, tp cik ya (aunty saya) keluar dulu, mok tehti (wife tehpi) still kat dlm. Kire de jan msk after cik ya. De jan n mok tehti keluar skali so, saya ngan adek dpt msk same2. Tyme msk tgk tehpi tu, dh sebak rase tgk tehpi x sdar. Tp mmg niat nk baca yaasin kat dlm. Msk, baca r dlm bbrapa ayat. Dgr tehpi mcm batuk. Dlm 2 kali mcm tu, tp saya ngan adek bace je yaasin. Time tgh2 baca tu, tgk nurse dtg ktuk dada tehpi. Kuat sgt. Nurse tu Kate “pakcik, mtk maaf pakcik”. Maybe sbb dia ktuk dada tehpi kuat kot. Tp tehpi xde respon pon. Saya ckp kat adek, “kak nk keluar. Kak xboleh tgk”. Saya keluar n panggil abg pih (anak tehpi). Before keluar tu, saya dgr nurse kata, nadi dh 0. Pastu hilmi (anak tehpi) dtg kata tehpi dh xde. Semua nanges time tu. Saya msk skali ag kat ccu. Time tu guard bg sume msk. Saya tgk anak2 tehpi kiss dia. saya x thn sgt. saya nanges gk. Adek hug je saya. N saya dnga kak cah (anak tehpi) bgtau mak tehti. “abah dh xde. Xpela, klu ade pon, mate dh x nmpk, bg la dye brehat, kte redha je la.” Bgsla, kire pulang ke Allah. N sebenarnya hari tehpi jatuh bilik air n koma tu adalah tarikh hari lahirnya yang ke 58 n arwah meninggal sehari selepas itu.

Time tu dh maghrib, saya, alom n adek g umah mak kak ja(mak mertua alom) solat maghrib n isyak kat sane. Hilmi sms yg tehpi dlm proses wat blk kg ktorg, umah nenek. Sampai kat umah nenek, tgk arwah tehpi dh ad ats katil. Papa tgk tehpi pon kiss tehpi. saya x tgk dkat, sebak. Sampai2, trus bace yaasin. saya ade satu prasaan yg xboleh if xde org bacekn yaasin utk tehpi, xnk dia sorg2. If saya stop baca, saya akn make sure yg org lain pun ade tgh bacekan yaasin utk arwh gk. Mlm tu, tgk time ank2 tehpi tgk tehpi n nanges, saya tutop muka ngan yaasin. Xdpt thn tgk. Mata saya dah bengkak blk rumah after tu.

Pg esok, after subuh terus mandi n gi rumah nenek. Sampai, saya bace yaasin n anak n anak sdare tehpi pon ade bacekan yaasin gk. Ramai ckgu2 dtg ziarah. Sbb tehpi bks guru bsr kat bbrape skolah. Datz why ckgu2 ramai dtg. Time mandikan n kafan saya xtgk. But before tutop muke tu, saya tgk. Time tu, plg sedih tgk time ayah saya n mak tehpi kiss tehpi for da last time. Adek kate adek x pernah tgk papa nanges smpai mcm tu. N time mak tehpi pon sdih sbb 2 kali dye kiss tehpi. Xdngar dia kata ape tp adek kate, dye dgr mak tehpi kate “pi.. mak ni…”. Tp mmg tharu tgk.

Time nk smbahyangkan pon, ramai dtg smbahyang, ckgu2 r especially. Aritu, lbih kurg kol 12 slesai tnm. Aritu, time saya sorg2, saya akn tringat saat2 tu camne.
Mlm tehpi mninggal tu, saya ckp kat adek, “Allah pilih kita tgk tehpi pergi, dpn mate kita, if kita x sdar lagi xtaula.” Mlm masa saya tau tehpi masuk hospital tu, saya terpikir camne time malaikat maut dtg ambil nyawa. saya terpikir dose2 saya byk, saya tkot malaikat maut dtg ambil nyawa saya dgn muka bengis. Esoknye, dpn saya sebenarnya malaikat maut buat kerjanya iaitu amek nyawa tehpi. Dpn mata saya, saya tengok cane tehpi dh x respon tyme nurse ktuk2 dade dia. Before 2, ade ag dia batuk, means time tu la malaikat Izrail ambil nyawa tehpi. Ape yg saya fikir time tu is saya pon akn mcm tu nanti. akan mati gak cume xtau bila. Kira Allah bg pringatan kat tehpi melalui sakit dia. Camne kalau Allah x bagi pringatan kat kita, time kita tgh2 sihat walafiat, tibe2 malaikat izrail dtg jemput kita. Apa persediaan kita. Kita x dapat lari dah. Semua orang yang dah mati akan minta dikembalikan semula ke dunia untuk berbuat amal. Tu maknenye azab kubur sangatlah berat yang kita x dapat gambarkan. Azab Allah sangatlah berat. Nabi Muhammad pernah bersabda, “Kubur boleh jadi sebuah taman syurga dan boleh juga jadi lubang neraka”. Apa yang akan teman kita kat dalam kubur nanti, amalan2 kita. Kalau kita tau yg antara peneman kita kat dlm kubur termasuklah ilmu yang bermanfaat, begitu jugalah ilmu yang tak bermanfaat yang kita ajar kat org lain. Dengan kata lain, ilmu tu akan berpanjangan teman kita, iaitu yang bermanfaat, insyaAllah senangkan kita dan yang tak bermanfaat tu la penyebab kita kena siksa. Nauzubillah.

Apa2 yg jadi kat dunia ni, kita jgn fikir yang benda tu akan habis kat dunia ni je tapi kite kena fikir yang kita kena bertanggungjawab kat akhirat nanti. Kita tau yang hari kiamat pasti akan tiba, Cuma Allah rahsiakan bila je. Tanggungjawab kita yang kita kene jawab dengan Allah kat akhirat nanti termasuklah tanggungjawab kita ngan Allah n dgn manusia gk. Kalau ngan Allah, yg plg penting, solat lima waktu sebab tu perkara pertama yang akan dihisab nanti insyaAllah. Camne kita boleh duduk bersenang lenang lagi kat atas dunia ni kalau kita wat dosa kat Allah. Kita terfikir x, terang2 kita melakukan dosa, Allah x terus balas pun dose kite. Boleh je Allah nak tarik rezeki kita tapi sebab kasih sayang Allah, Allah still bagi rezeki kat kita. Kita sepatutnya rase malu ngan Allah. Bila kita buat maksiat tapi kita still duduk atas bumi Allah.

Tanggungjawab kita ngan manusia pun banyak. Contohnya untuk x mengumpat orang lain. Dosa mengumpat sangatlah besar sebenarnya sebab hanya orang yang kita umpatkan itu sahaja yang akan ampunkan dosa kita. Kalau dah ramai sangat orang yang kita ngumpat tu, camne kita nk cari org tu nk pegi mtk maaf. Ape slhnye aib org kita tutop sbb kalau kita tutup aib org, Allah akan tutup aib kita. insyaAllah. Kita jangan rasa diri kita hebat, kita hanya nampak salah n kurang kat orang lain. Tgk diri kite jugak ade kurang kat mane. Kalau kita rase nk ngumpat, kita try la fikir yang mengumpat ni mcm makan daging saudara kita sendiri. Nabi Muhammad s.a.w pon pernah berkata, “Antara yang paling banyak masuk neraka adalah disebabkan mulut dan kemaluan.” Dari mulut tu, termasuklah mengumpat.

Sekarang ni, kita try la mtk maaf ngan org yg kita ngumpatkan tu. insyaAllah. N if kite tau ade org ngumpat kita, kita maafkanla mereka sebab Nabi pun ampunkan umat baginda, ni kan pulak kita yang hina ni. Maybe mmg ade slh kita sampai org ngumpat kite kat blakang, tp kita redha je la n try brubah ke arah yg lebih baik insyaAllah.

Sebenarnya tujuan saya tulis ni adalah untuk sedarkan diri saya n diri orang lain jugak. Saya nak brubah. insyaAllah. Saya takut mati dalam keadaan tak sempat bertaubat. Perkara paling rugi kat atas dunia ni kalau kita tak cukup amalan untuk jadikan bekal kat kubur n akhirat nanti. Walaupun xde orang yang dah mati bgtau kita macamane keadaan mereka kat kubur, tapi dlm Al-Quran pon ade sebut yang mereka yang dah mati nak pulang ke dunia dan nak membuat amal je. Jadi kita boleh pikir yang memang kita tak akan dapat tahan macamane kat kubur n kat akhirat nanti.

X rugi pon kalau kat dunia kita rase panas sbb kena pakai tudung dan menutup aurat tp insyaAllah kita senang kat akhirat nanti asalkan kita ikhlas la. Sebenarnya dosa x tutop aurat bagi yang tak menutup rambut, Seurat rambut, dah brape ribu tahun kene siksa kat nerake. Rambut kita bukan ade 2 urat je. N dosa orang yang tengok aurat kita pon, kita yang akan tanggung. Brape orang yang tgk aurat kita, dosa sendiri pon kita x tertanggung, tmbh lagi dosa org yang tgk aurat kita. Tempat2 yang kita dedahkan tu la yang akan kena bakar kat akhirat nanti. Kalau kita fikir mcm tu, InsyaAllah kita akan sedaye upaye menjage aurat kita. Jgn risau la kita x ikot trend ke, x fashionable ke. Benda tu bukan tiket Allah nk suka kat kita. Walaupun kita x cantik kat dunia ni, tp kalau kita x buat ape yg Allah larang, tu yang buat Allah suka kat kita. insyaAllah. Sebenarnya kecantikan seorang perempuan tu, hanyalah untuk ditunjukkan pada suami sahaja. Kalau kita pakai pakaian kemegahan kat dunia ni, Allah akan bagi kita pakai pakaian kehinaan kat akhirat nanti.
Janganlah sampai Allah berpaling daripada kita sebab tanda-tanda Allah berpaling daripada kita adalah Allah sibukkan kita dengan benda2 yang x berfaedah. Janganlah kita rasa dosa yang kita buat tu kecik sebab walau dosa2 kecik skalipun kalau kita buat berterusan akan jadi dosa besar.

Niat saya tulis ni jugak bukanlah nk mengaibkan atau condemn sesiapa tapi just sebagai peringatan buat diri ini dan orang lain juga sebab kita tak tahu bile kita akan mati. Kita x boleh guna alasan Allah tak bagi lagi hidayah kat kita sebab peringatan ni dah ade lame dalam Al-Quran. Saya mintak maaf jugak kalau ade menyinggung prasaan sesiapa. Tapi after tgk sendiri macamane pakcik saya meninggal depan mate saya, saya tahu Allah still bagi peluang kat saya untuk berubah n bukan semua orang dapat peluang ni. N saya insyaAllah xnk sia2kan peluang yang Allah bagi ni sebab Allah dah pilih dlam ramai2 org, Allah pilih saya n adek saye tgk macamane keadaan kita pun yang akan mati jugak suatu hari nanti. Kita ada mase lagi untuk bertaubat sbb pintu taubat sentiasa terbuka luas dari ALLAH untuk hamba2-Nya insyaAllah. Saya nk minta maaf juga kat sesiapa yang saya ade menolak untuk membuat apa2 aktiviti. Sebenarnya, atas sebab2 fikir mati n fikir akhirat ni lah saya tolak. Saya harap saya tak disalah faham. Saya tau, saya tak layak untuk bercakap psl dosa n pahala sebab saya sendiri pon byk kekurangan n byk dosa. Saya tau. Tapi mcm yg saya dah katekan, saya nk brubah ke arah yang lebih baik dari yang sebelum ini dan dlm proses untuk perbetulkan diri saya n betulkan ape yg dh salah. InsyaAllah. Saya nk mintak maaf juga kat sesiapa yang saya dah buat salah. Saya mintak maaf. Al-Fatihah juga kepada arwah pakcik saya, Tehpi. Semoga roh arwah ditempatkan di tempat org2 yg beriman dan beramal soleh. Amin. Assalamualaikum.

Saya.
Sufiah Nazirah binti Mohamad Nasir.

15 Musuh Iblis

2010-12-22T04:16:00.000-08:00

Menurut riwayat Wahab bin Munbih, pernah terjadi peristiwa di mana Allah SWT memerintahkan Iblis menemui Nabi Muhammad SAW dan menjawab segala pertanyaannya. Lalu Iblis pun mengunjungi Baginda dengan menyamar sebagai seorang tua bangka yang memegang tongkat.

Nabi bertanya:"Man anta?"(Siapa anda?)
"Saya Iblis" jawabnya.
"Apakah maksudmu datang?" tanya Rasulullah.
"Tuhan memerintahkanku supaya menemui anda dan menjawab segala pertanyaan anda" jawab Iblis.
"Wahai Iblis, berapakah banyaknya musuh-musuhmu dari umatku?" tanya Rasulullah.
"Lima belas orang" jawab Iblis.

1. Nabi Muhammad SAW
2. Imam yang adil
3. Orang kaya yang rendah hati
4. Pedagang yang jujur
5. Orang alim yang sembahyangnya khusyu'
6. Orang beriman yang suka memberi nasihat
7. Orang beriman yang pengasih
8. Orang yang taubat dan tetap atas taubatnya
9. Orang yang tidak mahu membuat kemungkaran
10.Orang beriman yang sentiasa berwudhu'
11.Orang beriman yang banyak bersedekah
12.Orang beriman yang berkelakuan baik
13.Orang beriman yang memberi manfaat kepada orang lain
14.Orang yang mengamalkan dan terus menerus membaca Al-Quran
15.Orang yang menegakkan ibadat pada waktu malam, sedangkan orang lain tidur dengan nyenyaknya.

sumber daripada Buku Sedarkah Kamu Wahai Manusia. Antara Semalam dan Hari Ini. (Wan Md Jamal bin Wan Md Saman)

Golongan yang tidak akan ditimbang (di Mizan)

2010-12-22T02:41:00.000-08:00

- para Nabi dan Syuhada
- orang yang tidak dihisab seramai tujuh puluh ribu orang. mereka juga tidak ditimbang
- orang yang mati dalam husnul khatimah. iaitu mengucapkan kalimah tauhid di saat roh keluar dari tubuhnya
- orang yang qanaah. iaitu orang yang sangat sabar memikul cubaan Allah SWT. Berkata Hasan Ibn Ali r.a., bahawa nenekku (Nabi Muhammad SAW) berpesan kepadaku, "Hai cucuku! Biasakanlah dirimu Qanaah. nanti engkau akan lebih kaya di antara sekalian orang. Dan biasakanlah dirimu membayarka yang fardu. Nanti engkau akan lebih banyak ibadah daripada sekalian orang. Hai cucuku! Di dalam Syurga ada sebangsa kayu yang bernama Balwa. Kayu ini diberikan kepada orang yang Qanaah. Untuk orang yang seperti itu mereka tidak akan ditimbang di dalam mizan." Lantas Nabi SAW membacakan sepotong ayat, "Bahawa sesungguhnya orang yang sabar itu akan mendapat upah dari Allah iaitu mereka tidak akan dihisab."

wallahua'lam.
dipetik daripada Buku Sakaratul Maut dan Alam Kubur. (Abd. Shukur)

Perkara yang memberatkan timbangan

2010-12-22T02:31:00.000-08:00

Adapun perkara yang ikut memberatkan timbangan kebajikan itu ialah:
-budi pekerti yang baik
-selawat akan Nabi SAW

Bersabda Nabi SAW yang bermaksud:
"Tidak sesuatu pun yang ikut memberatkan timbangan itu di akhirat selain dari budi pekerti yang baik" (Rawi Syaikhan)

Dalam Hadith yang lain dikatakan bahawa yang ikut memberatkan timbangan itu ialah "Selawat akan Nabi SAW"

-petikan daripada buku Sakaratulmaut dan Alam Kubur. (Abd. Shukur)

For the Rest of My Life

2010-08-05T05:30:00.000-07:00

By: Maher Zain

I praise Allah for sending me you my love
You found me home and sail with me
And I`m here with you
Now let me let you know
You`ve opened my heart
I was always thinking that love was wrong
But everything was changed when you came along
OOOOO
And theres a couple words I want to say

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you. loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I`ll be there for you

I know that deep in my heart
I feel so blessed when I think of you
And I ask Allah to bless all we do
And I pray we`re together eternally
Now I find myself so strong
Everything changed when you came along
OOOO
And theres a couple word I want to say

I know that deep in my heart now that you`re here
In front of me I strongly feel love
And I have no doubt
And I`m singing loud that I`ll love you eternally

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you.loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I`ll be there for you

I know that deep in my heart

Insya Allah

2010-06-13T17:41:00.000-07:00

Everytime you feel like you cannot go on
You feel so lost
That your so alone
All you is see is night
And darkness all around
You feel so helpless
You can`t see which way to go
Don`t despair and never lose hope
Cause Allah is always by your side

Insya Allah
Insya Allah you`ll find your way

Everytime you can make one more mistake
You feel you can`t repent
And that its way too late
Your`re so confused,wrong decisions you have made
Haunt your mind and your heart is full of shame

Don`t despair and never loose hope
Cause Allah is always by your side
Insya Allah
Insya Allah you`ll find your way
Insya Allah
Insya Allah you`ll find your way

Turn to Allah
He`s never far away
Put your trust in Him
Raise your hands and pray
OOO Ya Allah
Guide my steps don`t let me go astray
You`re the only one that showed me the way,
Showed me the way
Insya Allah
Insya Allah we`ll find the way

by Maher Zain

think BEFORE saying....

2010-06-12T18:02:00.000-07:00

sometimes people cant juz put their shoes in others' shoes.... wuteva being utterred neva be thought before being said.... do we ever think that what we are gonna say might make others to feel humiliated or feel offended by what we are saying... the reason being is because of what is faced by others is the thing that they do not wish for... for instance, any flaws that we could obviously see on the people... if the thing involves the people's weakness and being talked in front of others comprise of a lot of people, surely it will bring humiliation towards the people... eventhough what are being said may be right and may actually be committed by that people if it is a bad attitude for example, but the right way to advise is when there is nobody else, in other words, when only we and the one that is going to be advised at dat particular place so that they will not feel humiliated or offended.... i do read a saying says:

"kalau kita nak tegur seseorang, tegurlah apabile cume kita berdua dengannya, jika ditegur semasa berada dengan orang lain, ia adalah lebih kepada menghina seseorang itu."

so, dats what im going to convey.... therefore, as an advice for myself also, do think before we say anything or else we would make others feel offended... just because of we got da look n other good things that may not be possessed by everyone, it is not da reason why we could simply say anything without thinking first... hence, WE HAVE TO THINK BEFORE SAYING ANYTHING....

T H A N K Y O U . . .

2009-12-29T05:55:00.000-08:00

As we stroll along together,
hand in hand,
a silent prayer goes unnoticed,
thanking God for your existence which is now food to my very soul.

Words cannot express the gratitude i hold for da concern, sacrifice and love dat have brought me this far into da world.

thank you so much...

doa....

2009-12-21T20:48:00.000-08:00

Ya Allah seandainya telah Engkau catatkan
Dia milikku tercipta buatku
Satukanlah hatinya dengan hatiku
Titipkanlah kebahagiaan antara kami
Agar kemesraan itu abadi
Dan Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku Yang Maha Mengasihi
Seiringkanlah kami melayari hidup ini ketepian yang sejahtera dan abadi

Tetapi Ya Allah
Sekiranya Engkau telah takdirkan dia bukan milikku
Bawalah ia jauh dari pandanganku
Luputkanlah ia dari ingatanku
Dan peliharalah daku dari kekecewaan

Serta Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku Yang Maha Mengerti
Berikanlah aku kekuatan
Melontar bayangannya jauh ke dada langit
Hilang bersama senja nan merah
Agar aku bahagia walaupun tanpa bersama dengannya

Dan Ya Allah Yang Tercinta
Gantikanlah yang telah hilang
Tumbuhkanlah kembali yang telah patah
Walaupun tidak sama dengan dirinya

Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku
Pasrahkanlah aku dengan takdirMu
Sesungguhnya apa yang telah Engkau takdirkan adalah yang terbaik buatku
Kerana Engkau Maha Mengetahui segala yang terbaik buat hambaMu ini

Ya Allah cukuplah Engkau sahaja yang menjadi pemeliharaku di dunia dan di akhirat
Dengarkanlah rintihan dari hambaMu yang dhaif ini
Jangan Engkau biarkan aku sendirian
Di dunia mahupun di akhirat
Dan janganlah Engkau menjuruskan aku ke arah kemaksiatan dan kemungkaran
Maka kurniakanlah aku seorang pasangan yang beriman
Supaya aku dan dia sama-sama dapat membina kesejahteraan
Hidup ke jalan yang Engkau redhai
Dan kurniakanlah padaku keturunan yang soleh

Amin...

if we really love someone, juz pray to Allah coz He is da only one that can fulfill our prayer....

behind our back.

2009-12-08T04:47:00.000-08:00

sometimes when we hear something bad about us, dun simply get mad for why people say behind our back might haf da reasons why it is being talked behind us.... we might not easily accept if the people confront us and that is da reason why it is being talked without our knowledge... but i do believe dat the people who do so might not want to hurt our feeling... thus, it is only being talked just behind us....

n, i also believe dat the people have their own ways to let us know without hurting our feeling... n one of the ways include talking behind us so dat sooner or later, the thing will be exposed to us or in other words, eventually, it will also come to our knowledge.... i mean, when da thing being told to many people, somehow, it will easily be exposed to da person whom it may concern....

den, after da thing has come to our knowledge, dun simply judge da people doing so are da bad ones for we also need to ponder over da matter....wut we need to do is, analyze whether we really commit da thing dat has been said towards us... im sure dat people will not say behind our back if we were not doing it.... den, it shows dat we really commit wut is said towards us... den why must we get mad after knowing it... like i always write, juz be as rational as possible.... for being understanding about others is easier than to be understood...

just remember dat, somehow, everything happens for a reason... we must treat da thing as a turning point for us to change... da thing said might not be liked by other people... so, there is nuthin wrong for us to accept the truth n change for da better... erm.... last but not least, every cloud has a silver lining....

tobat maksiat

2009-12-04T00:36:00.000-08:00

dengarlah hai sobat
saat kau maksiat
dan kau bayangkan ajal mendekat
apa kan kau buat
kau takkan selamat
pasti dirimu habis dan tamat
bukan ku sok taat
sebelum terlambat
ayo sama-sama kita taubat
dunia sesaat
awas kau tersesat
ingatlah masih ada akhirat
astafighrullahal’adzim

ingat mati, ingat sakit
ingatlah saat kau sulit
ingat ingat hidup cuman satu kali
berapa dosa kau buat
berapa kali maksiat
ingat ingat sobat ingatlah akhirat
cepat ucap astafighrullahal’adzim

pandanglah ke sana lihat yang di sana
mereka yang terbaring di tanah
bukankah mereka pernah hidup juga
kita pun kan menyusul mereka
astafighrullahal’adzim

* another song from waly band.

HADAPI DENGAN SENYUMAN..

2009-10-24T22:40:00.000-07:00

Hadapi dengan senyuman

Semua yang terjadi

Biar terjadi….

Hadapi dengan tenang jiwa

Semua... kan baik baik saja

Bila ketetapan Tuhan

Sudah ditetapkan

Tetaplah sudah….

Tak ada yang bisa merubah

Dan takkan bisa berubah

Relakan saja ini

Bahwa semua yang terbaik

Terbaik untuk kita semua

Menyerahlah untuk menang

THANX DYE!

remember HIM...

2009-09-30T05:07:00.000-07:00

whenever we feel dat we cannot cope with certain things..
whenever we feel so angry...
whenever we feel dat we are in a worry condition...
whenever we feel really sad...
OR in wuteva condition we are....

da best thing to be performed is, remember HIM...
InsyaAllah, He will help us...

these are the zikir harian that could be practised by us according to the days...

e x p e r i e n c e . . .

2009-09-28T05:23:00.000-07:00

life is all about experiencing new things that may teach us so many lessons... one should be grateful to have those experiences for we can grow maturely to think in mature-manner... at least all da experiences tell us who we really are... what we should do and shud not do... n how we should live dis lyfe for living is only once... one might suffer such a very painful experience in lyfe but it is just being felt so dat in da future we know how to handle the situation as such... besides teaching us to be more careful and to think such an adult... not only da painful moments that might be remembered but not to forget da sweet sweet ones for "tempat jatuh lagi dikenang, ni kan pulak tempat bermain..."... yes, of course da so-called sweet sweet memories are being hoped by every one of us being a human being in dis very world... n they are hoped not to be lasted... but it is better to do not be too carried away by all da thingy... for it will sumtymes give an end that never be expected for... so lyke, da best way is to take every thing for what it is only... avoid being too obsessed wif da things dat actually have uncertain ending... our Prophet once said, "BERSEDERHANALAH DALAM SEMUA PERKARA"

UNSPOKEN...

2009-09-19T05:28:00.000-07:00

Der are so many things to be told in every single day… yet, many of da things are being left untold… yes, its not proper to leave certain things untold but how about da telling of da things is actually worst than its being left untold… da silence on da things might not be purposely done but it’s necessary n I could say as da element of ‘have to’… means da things have to be left untold…

Fes, it might be awkward to juz let da things speak for themselves but the truth is that, the explanation on those things will juz worsen da situation n der will be no harmony condition achieved I guess… sumtimes when it comes to this matter, both sides are as if lyke understand themselves the things entangled each other… den, it will lead to the silence on the explanation of da things… n its not necessarily an intentional omission but its juz to keep the peacefulness between particular people..

Sumtimes, it is quite unclear on da reasons of da things but datz it… in order to avoid any worsening event, da reasons only be interpreted on our own… means, da explanation of them is not being obtained from the ones who do haf da explanation…

so lyke, dis phenomenon is actually one which is commonplace nowadays… eventho at da back of the particular people involved, der are so many inquiries and what not, but in front of them, those inquiries as if lyke only kept in da heart n not seems to be exploded.. but still da question mark will be da biggest mark in da faces of da people involved..

it is not to say by acting as if lyke der is no inquisition at all is a hypocrite action, but its actually to avoid any unwanted occasion happens… so dat for instance, a frenship or even a relationship will still remain…

last but not least, JUZ KEEP CERTAIN THINGS TO OURSELVES ONLY… or in other words, CERTAIN THINGS NEED TO BE UNSPOKEN..

appreciation...

2009-09-19T05:27:00.000-07:00

Der are so many kinds of people on dis earth.. some are nice, some are not… da thing dat will be shared in my blog dis tyme is about the type of people who dun get da appreciation… when we talk about da issue of appreciation, it seems very subjective which we could not easily construe how da appreciaton is being shown.. either it is shown through action or only by words… den, it seems very subjective… sumtimes, when we are doing something, eventho we haf da maximum level of sincerity, somehow, we still seek for an appreciation.. I dunno how to say but juz let me say that, there must be give and take… but its rarely to find dis.. what always be carried out by certain of us, only take, without having any intention to repay or da element of “give”… yes, we cannot expect people will do exactly like what we have done towards them, but 2 me, it is some kind of a common sense.. we will repay the nice things done by others towards us.. but sometimes, certain people juz could not get it… I dunno its either they really dun get it or are they purposely abstaining themselves from repaying da nice things performed towards them… ermmmm… there is dis kind of people… den, nuthin can be done if we were to face this kind of people..

Again, it’s necessary to stress out that how sincere we are pon, we still hope for an appreciation.. eventho der might not be dis kind of people out there or I dunno whether its only me to have dis kind of feeling… I dunno… but speaking on my side, eventho im doing something sincerely,im still hoping for at least a little-little appreciation… but I guess since I dun really show wut kind of appreciation dat im hoping for, den da people around me juz cant get it whereas, its better to leave certain things unspoken.. but wut can we do? We dun haf any power to make the people doing definitely like what we are expecting for…

But still I think, we cannot blame anybody in dis matter for there are people outside there who really dun get it either they purposely make themselves ignorance of this matter or that’s the nature of them to do not have the feeling of appreciating others… but, on our part, wut we haf to do is….. TREAT OTHERS LIKE WE WISH TO BE TREATED….

ahmad farouq rahimi bin mohamad nasir

2009-09-10T20:17:00.000-07:00

A + D + E + K
=
I LOVE HIM!

d i s s a t i s f a c t i o n . . .

2009-09-10T19:12:00.000-07:00

i will begin with the circumstances happen around me... sumtymes lyfe gets very irritating... there are so many things happened around me that make me sick! dunno how to describe it even with a simple word... but that's the truth... frankly speaking, sumtimes i could not stand it... why people cant just understand... wut is it so difficult to comprehend about others? why must only the negative thoughts that only come to mind... WHY???

huisshhhh... it might be easy to say about understanding the circumstances happened around us than to actually do it... i do admit that fact... but why cant we begin with putting a simple attempt in trying to understand all da events happened... den, things will get easier...

2 me, it is just a matter of DISSATISFACTION... yes... we might sometimes have our own dissatisfaction towards all the things happened around us... but, it should only be sometimes n must be, not always... but wut actually held by certain of us, including me sometimes, da dissatisfaction is retained all da tyme... ermmm... it might be not all da tyme but then, i better say it, most of da tyme...

den, by holding dat dissatisfaction, do da things dat we wish n pray for are being fulfilled or even getting better or having da solution of da things happened? are they being resolved? n.... i might say NO... for instance, if we were to haf certain unsatisfied-feeling towards someone, must we always haf da negative thoughts towards them eventho not all da things possessed by them are really negative..? its better to be realistic n logical... since not all da bad things are actually bad in nature whereby they might haf their own value that we never discover about...

da most important thing is, wuteva it takes, we shud actually haf our 'second thought of rationality'... it is simply bcoz of all da things happened around us which we think right to our mind might be vice versa.... even on da surface of it, it is not right to our mind, but wut we need to do is, think back again n get da other side of thought or in other words try to put ourselves in the very natural side... dun juz think of ourselves eventho sumtimes the situation forces us to do so... but, if possible, just think of the rightness in every single thing fes rather than only focusing on our conscience only....

2 end my writing, JUST BE AS RATIONAL AND LOGICAL AS POSSIBLE!

lessons....

2009-09-02T03:30:00.000-07:00

these are da things dat i slowly learn n eventually realize....

sumtymes when life gets harder with all da inevitable tests from The Almighty, we just simply complain and blame for what has happened... it seems too hard for us to accept that.... but haf we ever thought that, everything happens for a reason?... ALLAH MAHA ADIL.... He tests us wif all kinds of hardships but actually, He has planned some other things or i could say that better things for us... but we might not realize it... what we know is just complaining and complaining...

while Allah tests us wif a lot of unpleasant events, have we ever thought about da sins that we haf performed?? about our ungratefulness?? yes... it might be easy to be said than to practise it... but why cant we spend only a few minutes of our time to ponder over dis matter.... what has been given by Allah or da things dat we want and we wish for... so called rezeki la.... He is not juz giving us tests but at da same tyme He also gives us nikmat. to live dis life for instance...

i ve heard a cramah by ustaz azhar saying dat, even luke sket pon Allah akan hapuskan dose kite, ni kan pulak dugaan laen yg Allah bg... yg lg bsar.... if only we could accept it n redha..., juz wait for da ganjaran kelak... if x kat dunia ni pon, kat akhirat Allah x seksa kite... Amin....

but as a preparation for dat, our heart must get 'cleaned' fes.... der are so many ways to 'clean' it... da simplest one could be solat n inter alia, berzikir, sabar n think of da hikmah behind all dat happened...

analoginye cenggini la, amek limau nipis, perah kat tangan kite yg luke... msti kita akan rase pdih thp dewe kn... but cu kite perah kat tgn kite yg xde luke pape, sure x rase pape kn... da same goes wif the tests given by Allah... if our heart pon x bape prepare to meet da tests, sure saket sgt kite rase kn... but if our heart 'clean' like tgn yg xde luke tuh, i.Allah kite xkan rase pape...

so, dis will be a reminder for myself gk....

me, myself n i . . .

2009-09-01T22:56:00.000-07:00

testing2...

as a starting one, let me intro myself la...

sufiah nazirah mohamad nasir... ppl often call me sufi, currently la... tyme kat skola, i got a batchname- chupex.. mybe my starter a.k.a pet-sys dlu her name was sofia bt hers sopex.. den my frenz started to call me chupex... ade le similarity a bit... but tyme skola rndah, my frenz called me, sufiah... baek kn? hee.... actually, this is da only thing that i wud lyke to share for now... bcoz in my subsequent posts, people will get to know me better...