think BEFORE saying....

sometimes people cant juz put their shoes in others' shoes.... wuteva being utterred neva be thought before being said.... do we ever think that what we are gonna say might make others to feel humiliated or feel offended by what we are saying... the reason being is because of what is faced by others is the thing that they do not wish for... for instance, any flaws that we could obviously see on the people... if the thing involves the people's weakness and being talked in front of others comprise of a lot of people, surely it will bring humiliation towards the people... eventhough what are being said may be right and may actually be committed by that people if it is a bad attitude for example, but the right way to advise is when there is nobody else, in other words, when only we and the one that is going to be advised at dat particular place so that they will not feel humiliated or offended.... i do read a saying says:

"kalau kita nak tegur seseorang, tegurlah apabile cume kita berdua dengannya, jika ditegur semasa berada dengan orang lain, ia adalah lebih kepada menghina seseorang itu."

so, dats what im going to convey.... therefore, as an advice for myself also, do think before we say anything or else we would make others feel offended... just because of we got da look n other good things that may not be possessed by everyone, it is not da reason why we could simply say anything without thinking first... hence, WE HAVE TO THINK BEFORE SAYING ANYTHING....

T H A N K Y O U . . .

As we stroll along together,
hand in hand,
a silent prayer goes unnoticed,
thanking God for your existence which is now food to my very soul.

Words cannot express the gratitude i hold for da concern, sacrifice and love dat have brought me this far into da world.

thank you so much...

doa....

Ya Allah seandainya telah Engkau catatkan
Dia milikku tercipta buatku
Satukanlah hatinya dengan hatiku
Titipkanlah kebahagiaan antara kami
Agar kemesraan itu abadi
Dan Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku Yang Maha Mengasihi
Seiringkanlah kami melayari hidup ini ketepian yang sejahtera dan abadi

Tetapi Ya Allah
Sekiranya Engkau telah takdirkan dia bukan milikku
Bawalah ia jauh dari pandanganku
Luputkanlah ia dari ingatanku
Dan peliharalah daku dari kekecewaan

Serta Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku Yang Maha Mengerti
Berikanlah aku kekuatan
Melontar bayangannya jauh ke dada langit
Hilang bersama senja nan merah
Agar aku bahagia walaupun tanpa bersama dengannya

Dan Ya Allah Yang Tercinta
Gantikanlah yang telah hilang
Tumbuhkanlah kembali yang telah patah
Walaupun tidak sama dengan dirinya

Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku
Pasrahkanlah aku dengan takdirMu
Sesungguhnya apa yang telah Engkau takdirkan adalah yang terbaik buatku
Kerana Engkau Maha Mengetahui segala yang terbaik buat hambaMu ini

Ya Allah cukuplah Engkau sahaja yang menjadi pemeliharaku di dunia dan di akhirat
Dengarkanlah rintihan dari hambaMu yang dhaif ini
Jangan Engkau biarkan aku sendirian
Di dunia mahupun di akhirat
Dan janganlah Engkau menjuruskan aku ke arah kemaksiatan dan kemungkaran
Maka kurniakanlah aku seorang pasangan yang beriman
Supaya aku dan dia sama-sama dapat membina kesejahteraan
Hidup ke jalan yang Engkau redhai
Dan kurniakanlah padaku keturunan yang soleh

Amin...

if we really love someone, juz pray to Allah coz He is da only one that can fulfill our prayer....

behind our back.

sometimes when we hear something bad about us, dun simply get mad for why people say behind our back might haf da reasons why it is being talked behind us.... we might not easily accept if the people confront us and that is da reason why it is being talked without our knowledge... but i do believe dat the people who do so might not want to hurt our feeling... thus, it is only being talked just behind us....

n, i also believe dat the people have their own ways to let us know without hurting our feeling... n one of the ways include talking behind us so dat sooner or later, the thing will be exposed to us or in other words, eventually, it will also come to our knowledge.... i mean, when da thing being told to many people, somehow, it will easily be exposed to da person whom it may concern....

den, after da thing has come to our knowledge, dun simply judge da people doing so are da bad ones for we also need to ponder over da matter....wut we need to do is, analyze whether we really commit da thing dat has been said towards us... im sure dat people will not say behind our back if we were not doing it.... den, it shows dat we really commit wut is said towards us... den why must we get mad after knowing it... like i always write, juz be as rational as possible.... for being understanding about others is easier than to be understood...

just remember dat, somehow, everything happens for a reason... we must treat da thing as a turning point for us to change... da thing said might not be liked by other people... so, there is nuthin wrong for us to accept the truth n change for da better... erm.... last but not least, every cloud has a silver lining....

tobat maksiat

dengarlah hai sobat
saat kau maksiat
dan kau bayangkan ajal mendekat
apa kan kau buat
kau takkan selamat
pasti dirimu habis dan tamat
bukan ku sok taat
sebelum terlambat
ayo sama-sama kita taubat
dunia sesaat
awas kau tersesat
ingatlah masih ada akhirat
astafighrullahal’adzim

ingat mati, ingat sakit
ingatlah saat kau sulit
ingat ingat hidup cuman satu kali
berapa dosa kau buat
berapa kali maksiat
ingat ingat sobat ingatlah akhirat
cepat ucap astafighrullahal’adzim

pandanglah ke sana lihat yang di sana
mereka yang terbaring di tanah
bukankah mereka pernah hidup juga
kita pun kan menyusul mereka
astafighrullahal’adzim

* another song from waly band.

HADAPI DENGAN SENYUMAN..

Hadapi dengan senyuman

Semua yang terjadi

Biar terjadi….

Hadapi dengan tenang jiwa

Semua... kan baik baik saja

Bila ketetapan Tuhan

Sudah ditetapkan

Tetaplah sudah….

Tak ada yang bisa merubah

Dan takkan bisa berubah

Relakan saja ini

Bahwa semua yang terbaik

Terbaik untuk kita semua

Menyerahlah untuk menang

THANX DYE!

remember HIM...

whenever we feel dat we cannot cope with certain things..
whenever we feel so angry...
whenever we feel dat we are in a worry condition...
whenever we feel really sad...
OR in wuteva condition we are....

da best thing to be performed is, remember HIM...
InsyaAllah, He will help us...

these are the zikir harian that could be practised by us according to the days...