remember HIM...

whenever we feel dat we cannot cope with certain things..
whenever we feel so angry...
whenever we feel dat we are in a worry condition...
whenever we feel really sad...
OR in wuteva condition we are....

da best thing to be performed is, remember HIM...
InsyaAllah, He will help us...

these are the zikir harian that could be practised by us according to the days...

e x p e r i e n c e . . .

life is all about experiencing new things that may teach us so many lessons... one should be grateful to have those experiences for we can grow maturely to think in mature-manner... at least all da experiences tell us who we really are... what we should do and shud not do... n how we should live dis lyfe for living is only once... one might suffer such a very painful experience in lyfe but it is just being felt so dat in da future we know how to handle the situation as such... besides teaching us to be more careful and to think such an adult... not only da painful moments that might be remembered but not to forget da sweet sweet ones for "tempat jatuh lagi dikenang, ni kan pulak tempat bermain..."... yes, of course da so-called sweet sweet memories are being hoped by every one of us being a human being in dis very world... n they are hoped not to be lasted... but it is better to do not be too carried away by all da thingy... for it will sumtymes give an end that never be expected for... so lyke, da best way is to take every thing for what it is only... avoid being too obsessed wif da things dat actually have uncertain ending... our Prophet once said, "BERSEDERHANALAH DALAM SEMUA PERKARA"

UNSPOKEN...

Der are so many things to be told in every single day… yet, many of da things are being left untold… yes, its not proper to leave certain things untold but how about da telling of da things is actually worst than its being left untold… da silence on da things might not be purposely done but it’s necessary n I could say as da element of ‘have to’… means da things have to be left untold…

Fes, it might be awkward to juz let da things speak for themselves but the truth is that, the explanation on those things will juz worsen da situation n der will be no harmony condition achieved I guess… sumtimes when it comes to this matter, both sides are as if lyke understand themselves the things entangled each other… den, it will lead to the silence on the explanation of da things… n its not necessarily an intentional omission but its juz to keep the peacefulness between particular people..

Sumtimes, it is quite unclear on da reasons of da things but datz it… in order to avoid any worsening event, da reasons only be interpreted on our own… means, da explanation of them is not being obtained from the ones who do haf da explanation…

so lyke, dis phenomenon is actually one which is commonplace nowadays… eventho at da back of the particular people involved, der are so many inquiries and what not, but in front of them, those inquiries as if lyke only kept in da heart n not seems to be exploded.. but still da question mark will be da biggest mark in da faces of da people involved..

it is not to say by acting as if lyke der is no inquisition at all is a hypocrite action, but its actually to avoid any unwanted occasion happens… so dat for instance, a frenship or even a relationship will still remain…

last but not least, JUZ KEEP CERTAIN THINGS TO OURSELVES ONLY… or in other words, CERTAIN THINGS NEED TO BE UNSPOKEN..

appreciation...

Der are so many kinds of people on dis earth.. some are nice, some are not… da thing dat will be shared in my blog dis tyme is about the type of people who dun get da appreciation… when we talk about da issue of appreciation, it seems very subjective which we could not easily construe how da appreciaton is being shown.. either it is shown through action or only by words… den, it seems very subjective… sumtimes, when we are doing something, eventho we haf da maximum level of sincerity, somehow, we still seek for an appreciation.. I dunno how to say but juz let me say that, there must be give and take… but its rarely to find dis.. what always be carried out by certain of us, only take, without having any intention to repay or da element of “give”… yes, we cannot expect people will do exactly like what we have done towards them, but 2 me, it is some kind of a common sense.. we will repay the nice things done by others towards us.. but sometimes, certain people juz could not get it… I dunno its either they really dun get it or are they purposely abstaining themselves from repaying da nice things performed towards them… ermmmm… there is dis kind of people… den, nuthin can be done if we were to face this kind of people..

Again, it’s necessary to stress out that how sincere we are pon, we still hope for an appreciation.. eventho der might not be dis kind of people out there or I dunno whether its only me to have dis kind of feeling… I dunno… but speaking on my side, eventho im doing something sincerely,im still hoping for at least a little-little appreciation… but I guess since I dun really show wut kind of appreciation dat im hoping for, den da people around me juz cant get it whereas, its better to leave certain things unspoken.. but wut can we do? We dun haf any power to make the people doing definitely like what we are expecting for…

But still I think, we cannot blame anybody in dis matter for there are people outside there who really dun get it either they purposely make themselves ignorance of this matter or that’s the nature of them to do not have the feeling of appreciating others… but, on our part, wut we haf to do is….. TREAT OTHERS LIKE WE WISH TO BE TREATED….

*ahmad farouq rahimi bin mohamad nasir*

A + D + E + K
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I LOVE HIM!

d i s s a t i s f a c t i o n . . .

i will begin with the circumstances happen around me... sumtymes lyfe gets very irritating... there are so many things happened around me that make me sick! dunno how to describe it even with a simple word... but that's the truth... frankly speaking, sumtimes i could not stand it... why people cant just understand... wut is it so difficult to comprehend about others? why must only the negative thoughts that only come to mind... WHY???

huisshhhh... it might be easy to say about understanding the circumstances happened around us than to actually do it... i do admit that fact... but why cant we begin with putting a simple attempt in trying to understand all da events happened... den, things will get easier...

2 me, it is just a matter of DISSATISFACTION... yes... we might sometimes have our own dissatisfaction towards all the things happened around us... but, it should only be sometimes n must be, not always... but wut actually held by certain of us, including me sometimes, da dissatisfaction is retained all da tyme... ermmm... it might be not all da tyme but then, i better say it, most of da tyme...

den, by holding dat dissatisfaction, do da things dat we wish n pray for are being fulfilled or even getting better or having da solution of da things happened? are they being resolved? n.... i might say NO... for instance, if we were to haf certain unsatisfied-feeling towards someone, must we always haf da negative thoughts towards them eventho not all da things possessed by them are really negative..? its better to be realistic n logical... since not all da bad things are actually bad in nature whereby they might haf their own value that we never discover about...

da most important thing is, wuteva it takes, we shud actually haf our 'second thought of rationality'... it is simply bcoz of all da things happened around us which we think right to our mind might be vice versa.... even on da surface of it, it is not right to our mind, but wut we need to do is, think back again n get da other side of thought or in other words try to put ourselves in the very natural side... dun juz think of ourselves eventho sumtimes the situation forces us to do so... but, if possible, just think of the rightness in every single thing fes rather than only focusing on our conscience only....

2 end my writing, JUST BE AS RATIONAL AND LOGICAL AS POSSIBLE!

lessons....

these are da things dat i slowly learn n eventually realize....

sumtymes when life gets harder with all da inevitable tests from The Almighty, we just simply complain and blame for what has happened... it seems too hard for us to accept that.... but haf we ever thought that, everything happens for a reason?... ALLAH MAHA ADIL.... He tests us wif all kinds of hardships but actually, He has planned some other things or i could say that better things for us... but we might not realize it... what we know is just complaining and complaining...

while Allah tests us wif a lot of unpleasant events, have we ever thought about da sins that we haf performed?? about our ungratefulness?? yes... it might be easy to be said than to practise it... but why cant we spend only a few minutes of our time to ponder over dis matter.... what has been given by Allah or da things dat we want and we wish for... so called rezeki la.... He is not juz giving us tests but at da same tyme He also gives us nikmat. to live dis life for instance...

i ve heard a cramah by ustaz azhar saying dat, even luke sket pon Allah akan hapuskan dose kite, ni kan pulak dugaan laen yg Allah bg... yg lg bsar.... if only we could accept it n redha..., juz wait for da ganjaran kelak... if x kat dunia ni pon, kat akhirat Allah x seksa kite... Amin....

but as a preparation for dat, our heart must get 'cleaned' fes.... der are so many ways to 'clean' it... da simplest one could be solat n inter alia, berzikir, sabar n think of da hikmah behind all dat happened...

analoginye cenggini la, amek limau nipis, perah kat tangan kite yg luke... msti kita akan rase pdih thp dewe kn... but cu kite perah kat tgn kite yg xde luke pape, sure x rase pape kn... da same goes wif the tests given by Allah... if our heart pon x bape prepare to meet da tests, sure saket sgt kite rase kn... but if our heart 'clean' like tgn yg xde luke tuh, i.Allah kite xkan rase pape...

so, dis will be a reminder for myself gk....

me, myself n i . . .

testing2...

as a starting one, let me intro myself la...

sufiah nazirah mohamad nasir... ppl often call me sufi, currently la... tyme kat skola, i got a batchname- chupex.. mybe my starter a.k.a pet-sys dlu her name was sofia bt hers sopex.. den my frenz started to call me chupex... ade le similarity a bit... but tyme skola rndah, my frenz called me, sufiah... baek kn? hee.... actually, this is da only thing that i wud lyke to share for now... bcoz in my subsequent posts, people will get to know me better...