sometimes when we hear something bad about us, dun simply get mad for why people say behind our back might haf da reasons why it is being talked behind us.... we might not easily accept if the people confront us and that is da reason why it is being talked without our knowledge... but i do believe dat the people who do so might not want to hurt our feeling... thus, it is only being talked just behind us....
n, i also believe dat the people have their own ways to let us know without hurting our feeling... n one of the ways include talking behind us so dat sooner or later, the thing will be exposed to us or in other words, eventually, it will also come to our knowledge.... i mean, when da thing being told to many people, somehow, it will easily be exposed to da person whom it may concern....
den, after da thing has come to our knowledge, dun simply judge da people doing so are da bad ones for we also need to ponder over da matter....wut we need to do is, analyze whether we really commit da thing dat has been said towards us... im sure dat people will not say behind our back if we were not doing it.... den, it shows dat we really commit wut is said towards us... den why must we get mad after knowing it... like i always write, juz be as rational as possible.... for being understanding about others is easier than to be understood...
just remember dat, somehow, everything happens for a reason... we must treat da thing as a turning point for us to change... da thing said might not be liked by other people... so, there is nuthin wrong for us to accept the truth n change for da better... erm.... last but not least, every cloud has a silver lining....
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